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1.
Taking Control of your Breathing
This
is the most important part of this entire section!
You
must take total control of your breathing!
The
closer your breathing speed comes to your natural sleep breathing
speed, the better!
One of the
better ways to do this, is to place a tape recorder beside your
pillow when you go to sleep at night, and record your breathing
speeds as you go to sleep. Then, use, borrow, or rent a Metronome.
Match up the speed of the metronome to the speed of the breathing
sounds on the tape.
A good metronome
will have a gauge that will match the various speeds to the
type of music that best matches your " sleeping "
speed.
It is most
likely between 50 and 60 bpm.
This music
will help you relax, sleep, or go into a trance!
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Practise
when you don't need to!
Get
it down 'pat' first!
1) Make
sure that you are completely comfortable with each section,
prior to going on to the next one.
2) If you
are not living alone, select a time and a place where and when
you will not be bothered, and hang a "DO NOT DISTURB"
sign on the door when practicing.
3) A physical
trigger is required for best results, so I am suggesting
that you place the thumb of your less dominant hand between
the first two fingers of that hand and form a fist with the
thumb protruding where indicated below, and Squeeze down on
that thumb.
Find a comfortable
place where you will not be disturbed, and sit or lay down and
close your eyes.
Place the thumb of your least dominant hand between your fingers
and give a little squeeze & release
at the start of each section.
Try to slow the process down a little bit with each step.
Take a DEEP slow breath each time.
Squeeze,
release, and inhale to a slow count of 4,
then hold to a slow count of 4
Squeeze, release, and exhale to a slow count of 4,
then hold to a slow count of 4
Squeeze, release, and repeat the above process.
Repeat 3
times
Increase
the count to 5 and repeat the process, then to 6, and repeat.
If you have a recorder, you can make a tape of this process.
With a little practice, you will be able to instantly relax,
de-stress your body, or go instantly to sleep. It is necessary
to go through this long program to start with. Once mastered,
it can and will be shortened. However do not be in a hurry to
take shortcuts, it often results in either partial failure,
or re learning, as OLD HABITS DIE HARD !
It
is suggested that you master step one before moving to the next
section!
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